Any relationship from the past must be assessed by answering ten questions. Or maybe you were imagining things. And alot of it is blurry to me. These conflicting approaches to balancing the past with the present really stay at the forefront of a new partnership involving two people who were previously in a relationship together. If you are not getting counseling, the pairing between you two is a time bomb, waiting to destroy the trust you have pieced back together. There is no easy answer.
I am putting in the time to make changes in myself.
Rules for Dating an Ex-Husband
The good news is that it sounds like you are going in the right direction. We spent the next 4 or 5 months arguing and fighting over everything. Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean that what your ex did was OK, it just means you are choosing to work past the old issues and hurt and start over. Addictions are hard to break. It was a rude awakening to me that I have been taking her for granted. After all we have been us since i was 17, her It makes sense that it can be tempting to fall back into a relationship with your ex-husband.