While my friend Lisa was being discharged from the hospital, the doctor dropped by to check on her and deliver the "nothing in the vagina for six weeks" spiel. The Reflection Behind the Screen News. It all seemed so simple in high school health class! I didn't breastfeed my younger two, and the return to a sex life was much more seamless and painless than it was with my first, whom I nursed. You will want postpartum sex again. You ask your older sister or friend to buy you a pregnancy test and try not to let your imagination get the best of you as pee on a stick with zero finesse. Some of that was because it wasn't my first rodeo, but I know it also had to do with hormones—and my body being "mine" again much sooner.
Especially the first time having sex.
Does a woman always bleed when she has sex for the first time?
She loves small coffee shops, reading science fiction novels, and her Pomeranian. My anxiety was not unique, of course. Similar to how going from zero to one child is the biggest adjustment, returning to sex after baby number one is also the toughest. That being said, it is a part of life. That may seem hard to believe, given, well, everything you've just read, but as a mother myself, I know it to be true. Last few words of advice: You ask your older sister or friend to buy you a pregnancy test and try not to let your imagination get the best of you as pee on a stick with zero finesse.